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Does your children trust you? Interesting question hey?
I found this article and i believe it is very pertinent and important.

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I recently wrote an article about an incident that happened when my
son was very young. I thought I’d share it with you. I hope that
it will encourage you.

Here it is:

When my son was only about three years old, he and his sisters were
playing a game that involved chasing each other though the house
with loud giggles of laugher erupting every few minutes whenever
one of them came close to tagging one of their siblings. The giggles
were interrupted suddenly by a loud crash followed by a
blood-curdling cry of pain.

I jumped to my feet and ran to the living room where the apparent
mishap had occurred. My son had come around the corner too fast and
had fallen head first into the corner of a table. I quickly picked
him up from the floor where he was lying and held him in my arms
both to comfort him and to examine the wound. Streams of blood
gushed from his forehead.

By the time we reached the emergency room, his tears had subsided a
bit, but I was nervously anticipating the slight trauma still ahead
of us. After examining my son’s forehead, the doctor confirmed that
he would need to stitch the wound in order for it to heal properly.
The good news was that the cut would require only one stitch. The
bad news was that the doctor planned to do it without any anesthesia.

“We can stick him once or we can stick him twice,” the doctor
informed me. I was then told that giving him a shot to anesthetize
the area would be just as painful and traumatic as giving him the
single stitch. The shot would then have to be followed by a second
“stick” to actually stitch up the wound. I reluctantly agreed with
the doctor and opted for the single “stick.”

I encouraged my son that he was being a “brave little boy” as the
doctors and I gently strapped a restraining device around his tiny
body to keep him from thrashing around on the table during the
procedure. Inside, I was fighting back tears as he looked at me with
frightened, but trusting eyes.

“Keep looking at Daddy,” I encouraged him. “You’re being a very
brave little boy.”

His huge eyes remained locked on mine as the doctor gently washed
out the cut and prepared to stitch the wound shut.

“Okay, here we go,” the doctor said quietly. “It should be quick.”

“Keep looking at me,” I said, trying to smile and draw his trusting
eyes into mine. “Daddy’s right here.”

With precision and swiftness, the doctor quickly stabbed the curved
needle into the swollen flesh near the cut on my son’s forehead. My
son’s eye’s widened as he gasped in pain. Then in a whimpering voice
that carried the sweetness and innocence that only a three year-old
can summon, he looked up at me and said, “Please don’t do that again,
Daddy.”

My heart broke. How do you explain to your three year-old son that
the pain he is experiencing-the pain that, in his mind at least, was
caused by me-was inflicted with love, with a desire and design to
bring healing?

Oddly enough, that is one of my most precious memories of my son’s
early childhood. The procedure was over almost as quickly as it had
begun and, after a few hours, my son had returned to giggling with
his sisters. (Running in the house, however, was forever banned from
that point onward.) His trust and sweet response to the ordeal
continues to pierce my heart with love for him.

This episode is also a reminder for me of our heavenly Father’s love
and care for us and for those around us who may be experiencing a
painful season in life. In my mind’s eye, I can envision God holding
us as our Father whenever we’re hurting and telling us to keep our
eyes on Him and to trust Him, even if we don’t understand why things
are happening to us.

When we’re tempted to blame Him for our pain or to cry out, “Please
don’t do that again, Daddy,” we can take comfort in knowing that He
is very near to us, that He loves us and to trust that, even though
we may not always understand, there is a higher purpose at work in
everything that happens to us.

So keep your eyes on Him. Trust Him. He’s holding you and healing
you. He will never let you go. Know, too, that giggling-or however
you experience joy-will soon be a part of your life again.

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May God bless you and your loved ones.

All the Best,

Tim
timowri22@cox.net
757-692-9611

http://godcenteredwealth.com/main.html

Tim Wright, 120 Amarillo Avenue, Norfolk, VA 23502, USA

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